Stop ‘un-Islamic’ divorce by social media, says Omani imam

01:48PM Sat 18 Mar, 2017

Muscat // An imam at Muscat’s main mosque spoke out on Friday against the trend of divorcing through social media among younger couples in Oman.

Such divorces are against the principles of Islamic law, Sheikh Yusuf Al Hamdani said in his sermon at the Central mosque in the Omani capital. Marriage in Islam is a serious commitment that binds two lives into one and cannot be annulled by tapping quick messages in the social media, he said.
"Young people in Oman now divorce each other by sending messages on social media using their phones. It is against Islamic principles to use this method to end a marriage. They should not be in a hurry to go separate ways," Sheikh Yusuf said. "Social media is not a solution to any of their problems. They have to go back to the basics of Islam to find ways to stay married."
Muslims — both men and women — can notify their spouse of their intention to divorce either verbally or in a written message. Unlike some Muslim societies there is not even a specific word of phrase that must be used. Court approval is not required unless one of the partners launched legal proceedings to contest the divorce.
While there are no statistics on how many divorces in Oman were initiated through social media, about a third of the divorces currently being contested in the courts were issued in this way, according to the records of the sharia court.
"The popular one is WhatsApp — couples use it as the favourite channel to tell each other they need to end their marriage. They find it easy that way to prevent emotional scenes or a fight," said Asma Al Khalidi, a marriage counsellor.
The divorce rate in Oman is 1.6 per 1,000 couples, according to the Ministry of Awqaf and Religious Affairs. Divorces among young people between the ages of 25 and 35 make up just over 60 per cent of the total number.
The rate of divorce in Oman has increased by 3 per cent in 2016 compared to the previous year, according to the records of the ministry of awqaf and Islamic affairs. But the ministry has given no specific reasons for the rise in divorce.
There were 3,788 divorces in Oman in 2016.